HOW IS LOVE EXERCISED?

HOW IS LOVE EXERCISED?

Do you know that many people find it difficult to LOVE PEOPLE, I'm talking about the true LOVE. They try to LOVE but they keep failing at trials. How can the set of people show LOVE without stress and thereby enjoy showing LOVE to people around them. Please, if you are among those who find it difficult to show unconditional LOVE to colleagues, school/room mate, staffs, spouse,etc you need to check yourself. Get this, that the first thing you need to do is to LOVE yourself. HOW?
The enemy of oneself, operating in hatred or anger makes it difficult for you to show unconditional LOVE. The knowledge about your existence never opened your inner-eyes, if so, you would know that you in person don't worth living on this planet earth but because of the grace of God through His unconditional LOVE preserves you hoping you will change someday. Until you come to your right senses and grab the knowledge of your existence, you will never be LOVED let alone showing LOVE to others.
Secondly, SELF-SPIRIT needs to be conquered so as to live a fulfilling life. You always ascribe things to yourself. You also believe you are the only one who knows all. So, the presence of this mind-set sets your spirit on antagonism of which you become the first victim.
LOVE does not flow in an angry and a furious heart. Nobody can talk or chat with you. Nobody can even call and if they call you it will be in fear. Your eyes are always red at people around you. In fact, not only will you not show LOVE, you won't be able to progress in all ramifications.

Most importantly, to exercise unconditional LOVE, one must study and meditate on the word of God. It is a guideline. Heroes of old from whom true LOVE passed through need to be studied and worked on.
Hebrew 13vs1 says we should let brotherly LOVE continue. Meaning that let unconditional (brotherly) LOVE continue.

IN MARRIAGE

Husband, irrespective of the wife's status or posture must LOVE her wife brotherly (unconditionally)

HOW DO YOU SHOW LOVE?
Make sure you always pray together, in the morning and at night. This will boost the spiritual trust in each of the spouse. If a husband/wife can trust his/her spouse spiritually, it will be much easier to show unconditional LOVE to each other.

Spouse must learn how to give quality gifts that will be useful to his/her partner

Spouse (wife) needs to cultivate the habit of undressing her husband when he comes back from work, but before that, he will need a hug/kiss then a glass or bottle of water. Cultivating this habit makes a lot of homes last long. Don't forget that when there is no spiritual trust in marriage, the couple will be living mysteries.
Spouse (wife) must know the best dish of her spouse. In fact, she must know the bests of her spouse. Also, she must know the best mood to approach her spouse.

NOTE: In marriage, women are the strong pillars of marriage. When the pillar starts having porosity, then the marriage will be very prone to divorce or living in marriage deficiency.

SHALOM!